Sex toys are often thought to be only for women and vulva owners. Which makes sense since that is usually their main target audience. Women also have a more difficult time orgasming from penetrative sex alone. But penises deserve to have fun and feel pleasure too! And luckily there are tons of options out there!
Side Note: Many people, regardless of gender or relationship status, feel ashamed about owning sex toys. If this is you, YOU HAVE NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF! Sex toys are awesome and can provide you with wide variety of pleasure. It’s about regular sex not being enough, it’s about getting the most out of your orgasm and feeling good in your body. So, next time someone tries to shame or embarrasses you for owning a sex toy, tell them I said to fuck off.
Now that we have that out of the way, let’s get into what options we have for our penis friends and how they can enhance your sexual pleasure!
Cock Ring
This is a ring that goes around the base of the shaft on a penis. Some are also designed to go around the testicles too. The purpose is to gently cut off blood flow which can result in longer and harder erections. This can also result in a stronger orgasm. Majority of these products are made of silicone or rubber so it can be easily stretched over the penis to put into place. There are also metal and stainless steel options, but make sure you pick the right size! If you have a partner with a clitoris, a vibrating one might be a good option so you both get to have some extra fun. Cock rings sound scary to a lot of men but I promise you have nothing to fear! They are completely safe as long as you limit your use to no more than 30 minutes at a time.
Stroker/Sleeve
This device is designed to go on/around the penis while the user manually strokes the penis with it. They are typically textured inside to provide extra stimulation or mimic the feeling of a vagina, mouth or anus. You may have heard of the ever popular sex toy brand, FleshLight. Those are strokers. There are many other brands out there with different variations in style and sizes but the idea is to enhance manual masturbation.
Prostate (P-Spot) Massager/Butt Plugs
Now I know there’s some straight guys reading this thinking “oh, hell no!”. Or confused what a prostate even is (If this is you, I’m sorry this is how you are finding about it). So we will start there. What is a prostate? Well, it’s a small magically bean (or gland but I prefer magic bean) located just a few inches in the anus. If you have yet to explore this area of your body, I highly suggest you do! Stimulating the prostate can bring your orgasms to the next level and can even help provide multiple, full body orgasm!
The anus and prostate can be a little difficult to reach on your own. That’s where our trustee toys come in! A prostate massager is inserted into the anus with the curved end pointing toward the penis and testicles. Then, with a hand or through your own body movements, the device will gently massage the prostate. Most of these are wearable (meaning you can walk around the house or grocery store with it in). Often made from a hard plastic or silicone material. The overall shape is usually the same but you can find a variety of different sizes and textures. There are vibrating options as well for a little extra stimulation down there.
Butt plugs are a little different because they usually aren’t designed specifically for the prostate but provide much of the same sensations with the added “full” feeling. Butt plugs are also genderless and can be enjoyed by everyone and anyone.
Well, there you go! Male sex toys are definitely a thing and there are a tons of options on the market.
So go out my sexy fellas and treat yourself to a little self pleasure ;)
For recommendations of reputable brands, GQ has a great list provided: https://www.gq.com/story/the-best-sex-toys-for-men
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